Asking someone on a date is one the most intimidating things teenagers experience, but it doesn’t always have to be that way. Planning ahead what to say and what to do can help the experience be easier. This Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity to finally shoot your shot, so here are some steps to follow if you are thinking of asking someone out. 

Getting to know your crush before you ask them out is key for planning the date. Talk to them about their interests and hobbies and find common ground! A good first date is something that is both casual and entertaining. Many students around West Albany had ideas such as getting Dutch Bros, going to the movie theater, having a picnic, or thrifting. 

Giving your crush a compliment or a gift is a great way to show your interest in them because it shows that you care about them. This would also help ease some of the nervousness or tension. A gift could be flowers, chocolates, a stuffed animal, or a handmade craft.

Asking them out in a one-on-one conversation is best for all parties. Having other people in the conversation could be scary. They could also feel pressured into saying yes, or no, based on the audience. It is also a good backup if you are worried that you might be rejected. 

Once you’re ready to ask them out, you want to avoid making it awkward, so make sure to walk into the conversation with lots of confidence. Make your intentions of wanting to go on a date together clear; it’s best to avoid confusion. Stay calm because you don’t want to come off too strong. And always remember to be yourself!